Our approach flows from Ms. Viglucci’s MetroRelationship™ Philosophy where the Relationship is the cornerstone of our Life… There is inherent synergy in our partnership, which usually goes untapped… Our partner is our life Partner… Our partner is a Gift for our own evolution… They are the mirror to show us how we are being so we can see how we need to change. They are the playmate in the playground that is our relationship. They are the sand in our clam. They are the perfect match to trigger our sensitivities so we now have another chance to get what we didn’t get growing up. When we get our core needs met, we heal. When we stretch to meet that of our partner, we grow. This philosophy is the guiding core of our couples therapy techniques.
Our partner is a Gift for our own evolution… They are the mirror to show us how we are being so we can see how we need to change.
Partners have the tendency to go about their relationship with blinders on missing out on the opportunities for healing and growing. They miss the forest for the tree. They get stuck in their perspective and their usual MO in their interactions, viewing and treating each other like enemies as opposed to using this as the vehicle of possibilities that it is…
The key is to approach our partner as an ally, as our Partner, from a heart-centered place… From here we get that we are in this together, for a reason, and that being vulnerable and working together makes all the difference. Therefore we can have compassion for our mutual experience… The essence of our human experience… When we miss this, we are not really living our Life… It’s time to Awaken and live the life you were meant to live.
As we evolve together we can create something amazing, of amazing impact… We do this through role modeling and being inspiring as a couple, through our (co)parenting, and through taking on a Cause for larger impact to humanity. But this can’t take place if we don’t crack the code on how to do our relationship well.
Ms. Viglucci created different curricula, programs and events, including the Successful Couple Strategy™ (the Successful Couples Process™ revised), that assist clients create their successful relationship and meaningful lives. The work and couples therapy techniques are informed by established research, clinical theories and therapies (such as Systems, Bowenian, Attachment, Object-Relations, Post Modern, and CBT), as well as by recovery, wellness and success principles, and includes her proven processes, techniques, and tools.
The Successful Couple Strategy™
The Strategy that informs our couples therapy techniques helps intimate partners easily get on the same page, become a stronger partnership and increase their connection, intimacy and fun. Partners get to fall in love with each other again, and enjoy peace, joy, and love in their home and while creating a meaningful life.
It is comprised of five core Elements that when assimilated and integrated into the relational approach create a Transformation, not only for the relationship but also for the overall quality of life of the partners. The more the Elements are embraced the quicker and more profound the change…
Each Element addresses a significant relationship factor that undermine the wellbeing of the partners, the couple and their success if not addressed intentionally.
Element 1 – Context & Mindset:
Do you feel stuck and yearn for more in your relationship?
Shift your relationship mindset and break the impasse
Element 2 – Communication & Alignment:
Do you experience frequent misunderstandings?
Effortlessly get on the same page and better get each other
Element 3 – Clarity & Dynamics:
Do you have recurring conflicts and disagreements?
Understand why you have recurring dissatisfying interactions and change them
Element 4 – Connection & Intimacy:
Do you feel lonely, taken for granted, and unappreciated?
Reignite your love, deepen your intimacy and enhance your passion
Element 5 – Collaboration & Partnership:
Become a Team
Are you carrying the brunt of the responsibilities in your home?
Create a rock solid partnership and enjoy a peaceful, joyful, and loving home