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Financial or Emotional Crisis? Get Security Today!

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Money. Money is a hot topic in many relationships as there are intense emotions attached to money as well as a range of meaning around it. Partners have different ideas about the importance of money, what it means to them, its purpose, its role, how to manage it, and even how to earn it!

Couples are made up of two individuals that have different backgrounds, exposure, experience and relationship with money. Their parents had different relationships with money and gave them different messages around money.

Partners form different patterns and habits in their management of money. They have unique money blueprints. And, it is said that money = power. This usually plays out that whoever makes or brings the most money into the relationship wields the scepter… It is not unimaginable that conflicts are likely to abound.

All this creates complex dynamics in the relationship where money issues can play a significant role in interactions and have a negative impact on the couple and the relationship. Understanding where each partner stands in regards to money without judgment is very important.

Exploring each other’s money blueprints and how they came about is a wonderful first step in getting on the same page with your partner. This level of knowing and getting each other forms a bond that gives strength and resourcefulness for the couple to start addressing their money issues and situation differently.

As you start the exploration you might first encounter feelings of worry, anxiety, panic, and anger. Keep dialoguing and exploring until you tap into the vulnerable feelings. Listen for hidden or spoken feelings of fear, desperation, insecurity, loneliness, rejection, hopelessness, doom, betrayal, and other feelings that are familiar to each of you. Become aware of your and your partner’s vulnerable emotions attached to money and money matters. 

This process moves you from a place of reactivity to a place of awareness. This moves you from being jumpy and edgy to feeling calmer. With a new found awareness you can tap into your resources and start figuring out how to meet your needs – address the vulnerable feelings – which can be met relationally…

When you have a handle on your emotions, stop triggering each other and get on the same page you are better equipped to manage the practical side of your affairs.  Get resourceful and start securing your future!

Happy Securing!! 

 

~ Your MetroRelationship ™ Assignment

Set time aside to review your money blueprints and mindfully cocreate a Relationship Financial Blueprint that meets both your needs. Start putting your blueprint to work: Choose one immediate action you can take to start securing your financial future, and do it! 

 

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Emma K. Viglucci, LMFT is the Founder and Director of Metropolitan Marriage & Family Therapy, PLLC, a private practice that specializes in working with couples, she is the creator of the MetroRelationship philosophy and a variety of Successful Couple content that assist couples succeed at their relationship and their life. Stay Connected™ with Emma and receive weekly Connection Notes in your inbox with Personal Growth and Relationship Enrichment insights and strategies, visit: www.metrorelationship.com

 

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Emma K. Viglucci, LMFT has been in the mental health profession in varying capacities for the past 20+ years. She is the Founder and Director of metrorelationship.com a psychotherapy and coaching practice specializing in working with busy professional and entrepreneurial couples who are struggling getting on the same page and feeling connected. The work helps couples create a radiant and successful relationship and meaningful life by becoming a strong partnership and increasing their connection, intimacy, and fun. Emma is the creator of the MetroRelationship™ philosophy and the Successful Relationship Strategy™.

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