Usually we have good intentions and mean to invest in our relationship. Somehow this fizzles from the moment we have that thought or attitude to the next moment… We are very fickle in our thinking about the status and course of our relationship. One moment we are...
You CAN Understand Your Partner!
A key ingredient in a satisfying relationship is Understanding. When we don't feel understood we are out of sinc with one another and our needs can't be met. Understanding validates our existence, is respectful and mindful. It is amazing that most people do not have...
“Crying” Gets Your Needs Met!
When we are babies we learn to get our needs met by alerting our parents of a poopie diaper, hungry belly, or an ouchie with our crying. As adults, we continue to try to get our needs met with our "crying". Our crying has become more sophisticated over time and now...
Have Awesome Outcomes, Exercise Your Power to Choose!
Our relationship and life are a reflection of the choices we make… I find that we make poor choices at almost every turn and then wonder how come our relationship and life are not as we’d prefer them to be… I find that we do not own our Self and our life, that we do...
How Do You Want to Be Loved?
It is not unusual for couples to flounder on showing their love for each other. They do their best with attention giving, gifts, nurturing acts, and other loving gestures, but they just don't feel they have reached their partner. Their love is not visible to the...
Is Your Partner Your Life Partner?
Honor your Self. What does that mean? In my book, it means getting in touch with our Core, True, Authentic Self, our Soul, and operating from it in all we do. This means being in connection with our Self, knowing our Self. Most of the time we are in a fog and...
Financial or Emotional Crisis? Get Security Today!
Money. Money is a hot topic in many relationships as there are intense emotions attached to money as well as a range of meaning around it. Partners have different ideas about the importance of money, what it means to them, its purpose, its role, how to manage it, and...
From Desperate Anger to Blooming Passion
The season of renewal is finally here and with it comes an invitation to awaken to life. Note the blue skies, the sun shining, birds chirping, flowers blooming. What an enchanting time to be alive. The possibilities are countless. As we are coming out of hibernation,...