Top 10 strategies to ensure lasting love in your relationship [VIDEO]

by Emma Viglucci

When our relationship is not perfect or when we struggle in our relationship, we might have the mindset that – marriage is hard, being in a relationship is a lot of work, and other such nonsense… 

I get it that sometimes our relationship can be really frustrating and that we might feel like we spin our wheels and can’t make the changes we desire. I get it because I’ve been there, and because I see this with the many clients we’ve served over the years. 

But because we are feeling frustrated, and we might be feeling stuck our relationship and status don’t warrant such hard assessments and labels. This pejorative view further influences how we view and approach our relationship and our partner. This is the filter that affects everything else from our communication to our collaboration…   

Then we enter into additional disagreements, conflict and disconnect where it might feel impossible to create change in our relationship and to create the relationship we desire- but it is not. 

The 5 Elements of our Successful Relationship Strategy™ cover the targeted areas to focus on with your partner to seamlessly create a transformation in your relationship. When we intentionally focus on showing up differently, improving our skills, using better tools, changing our patterns and investing in our relationship in these areas- there is no way not to create change in our relationship… 

In this podcast episode I fly solo and share 2 tactics for each of these areas that you can implement right away for immediate results in your relationship…

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Element1 – Context & Mindset: Empower Yourself– this has to do with all things of the mind. Including upleveling mindset, changing thought patterns, addressing limiting believes, reprogramming negativity bias, and more… 

>> So you stop feeling stuck and break the impasse…

~ Partnership Mindset – This is where we embrace a allies vs enemies mindset… 

~ Effective Boundaries – This is where we fully own ourselves vs owning our partner…

Element2 – Communication & Alignment: Improve Understanding– this has to do with all things regarding communication. Including having proper conversations, addressing concerns and issues, resolving conflict, repairing, apologizing and more… 

>>So you easily get on the same page and understand each other better… 

~ Simple Powerful Skills – This is where we improve our communication tools and skills…

~ Speak for Yourself – This is where we get our partner to understand us… 

Element3 – Clarity & Dynamics: Change Patterns– this has to do with all things involving emotional patterns and programs. Including addressing our relationship loop, resolving having the same old fight, stopping the power struggle, increasing self-regulation and resilience, and more…  

>> So you understand why you have the same old issues creeping up and change the patterns

~ Meet Your Needs – This is where you learn how to meet and get your needs met… 

~ Give Something Different – This is where you optimize how you meet your partner’s needs… 

Element4 – Connection & Intimacy: Deepen Connection– this has to do with all things on connection and intimacy. Including how to create, sustain and deepen connection, how to increase and expand intimacy, how to enrich exchanges and have meaningful interactions, and more… 

>> So reignite your love, deepen your connection, and increase your intimacy  

~ Connection Habits – This where you automate improving your connection… 

~ Really Date Your Partner – This is where you bring the passion back…

Element5 – Collaboration & Partnership: Become a Team– this has to do with all things partnership and working better together. Including how to have a life vision and set achievable goals, create a smooth-running household, share responsibility, enjoy coparenting, and more…

>> So you create a strong partnership and a harmonious, joyful and loving home and beautiful life

~ Working Life Vision – This is where you align and create a north star for your life… 

~ Divide and Conquer Approach – This is where you have you own and each other’s back… 

You CAN create a successful relationship and meaningful life, just be intentional about it! 

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Wishing you all the joy, connection and love today and always…

With Much Love & Light!

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Emma K. Viglucci, LMFT is the Founder and Director of Metropolitan Marriage & Family Therapy, PLLC, a private practice that specializes in working with couples, she is the creator of the MetroRelationship™ philosophy and the Successful Couple Strategy™ that assist couples succeed at their relationship and their life. Stay Connected™ with Emma and receive weekly connection notes in your inbox with Personal Development and Relationship Enrichment insights and strategies, visit: www.metrorelationship.com.