Stop the same conflicts and power struggle in your relationship [VIDEO]
Couples have a flavor to their relationship, their relationship dynamics- a way in which they relate and interact with each other. And, they have certain topics and relationship areas that can be challenging for them. Sometimes these become issues and a source of conflict that just can’t seem to get resolved. The partners keep having the same old issues and facing the same old conflicts. They get stuck in a power struggle…
They keep having the same disagreements and fights, and they just can’t seem to get past their challenges. They loop around in their conversations and arguments without resolution. And they find themselves frustrated by their recurring dissatisfying patterns…
This is partly due to communication skills, but more often than not this happens because the partners have unresolved childhood wounds (sensitivities) and programming that inform their triggers. Until these things are addressed, deconstructed and reprogrammed, they’ll keep having their same old conflict…
For you see what happens is that each partner is trying to get understanding from the other of how they feel wronged. But in their quest, they don’t hear nor understand the other… They both end up invalidating each other, reinforcing their being stuck in the mud.
Then both partners are out to prove themselves right and prove their partner wrong, and nobody wins this game…
When partners are in this state, they become polarized and their differences feel insurmountable. They experience each other as enemies, and forget that they are Allies in this Journey of life…
In today’s video, I share about Element 3 of our Successful Relationship Strategy™ to help you identify your relationship loop, your power struggle, and how to change your repeating patterns…
I cover how you:
~ Are a perfect match
~ Power struggle for a reason
~ Can change your stuck dynamics, your repeating patterns and issues
Hope this information serves you and helps you get on the path to your Successful Relationship.
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Wishing you all the joy, connection and love today and always…
With Much Love & Light!
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Emma K. Viglucci, LMFT is the Founder and Director of Metropolitan Marriage & Family Therapy, PLLC, a private practice that specializes in working with couples, she is the creator of the MetroRelationship™ philosophy and the Successful Couple Strategy™ that assist couples succeed at their relationship and their life. Stay Connected™ with Emma and receive weekly connection notes in your inbox with Personal Development and Relationship Enrichment insights and strategies, visit: www.metrorelationship.com.