I don't know why partners can be wonderful people to strangers, and yet awful to each other. Wait, actually I do know why! There is an inherent risk in being nice to our partner... We create the opportunity for being available, vulnerable, close, intimate, One......
Interdependent, Healthy & Sexy Love…
A common theme I find in struggling relationships, is partners owning each other... Partners fall in love with their partner, to then want to change their partner and the very characteristics they fell in love with in the first place! This is not pretty. This is not...
Is Your Relationship Dying? Feeling Stuck in Your Relationship?
When your life feels like it's not working, when your relationship feels like it's not working - have you pondered why? I'm sure you have! The problem with this pondering that you might be doing is that you are probably focusing on the wrong things and that is why you...
How to Have a Successful Relationship…
What is a Successful Relationship? Is being with your spouse, partner, for decades the definition of a successful relationship? Is it raising awesome children? Is it having financial resources, a beautiful home? Is it having our partner do stuff for us? Is it having...