Do you find that your relationship and life appear to be on pause? Do you feel like you've been in a hamster's wheel? Does it feel like you are always back to square one, like you can't get ahead, like life is passing you by? Does it feel like your relationship is not...
Doing It Your Partner’s Way
I learned to listen to my husband’s wishes. This might sound simple and easy to do, and even a given, right? But it’s not. It’s common for partners to give and do for each other what they’d like for themselves. Just this week I was talking with a client who does not...
Do You Have Relationship Gravy?
Does your partner support you, romance you, engage you, enliven you, energize you, seduce you? Is your partner there? When couples are not on the same page, they tend to drift apart. They fight a lot, don't feel each other, and don't get their needs met. Partners...
Are You Abandoned or Smothered in Your Relationship?
Couples get stuck in how they relate in their relationship and no matter how they try to get unstuck, to meet their needs and to create a satisfying relationship, they just get more and more buried in dissatisfaction. The negative cycle of relating, their stuckedness,...
Spring Your Relationship to Life!
The bottom line of the romantic relationship is feeling connected, loved and acknowledged. This is what we strive for in our relationship. This is of course not the only thing we want out of our relationship, but it sure is one of the top ones! This explains the need...
Hunches, Gut Feelings & Intuition
Our body is our most important possession. It houses, protects and enables our most precious possession - our brain. Our brain creates and generates our mind and the essence of us. It makes us who we are on a daily basis. It is the CEO of Me, Inc. It is the master...
Stop Reacting, Start Responding!
Do you find that your interactions with your partner include some of the following? Poor or no eye-contact Giving of the back or talking to the back Talking to the air Not responding, acknowledging or answering questions Dismissing Shutting down, ignoring Withholding...
You CAN Understand Your Partner!
A key ingredient in a satisfying relationship is Understanding. When we don't feel understood we are out of sinc with one another and our needs can't be met. Understanding validates our existence, is respectful and mindful. It is amazing that most people do not have...