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Creating new beginnings through connection and collaboration

Creating new beginnings through connection and collaboration

Let’s ready ourselves for a new season this year, and possibly a new season of life… There is so much happening in the world at large, in this country, and in most of our lives as usual… And time seems to be moving faster… Making our lives more intense and challenging. I don’t know about you, but I already have a special relationship with time and don’t need for it to get more complicated. For us to have a better go if it, we have to shift our approach to how we create our relationship and our life… 

The key here is step up our awareness, presence, flow, allowing, connecting, and collaborating to operate from a higher level and thus create the relationship and life we love with more ease, joy, and fulfillment.

Instead of focusing on all the doing and all the to-dos, extending ourselves to the limit and to exhaustion, and wondering how do we get our partner to support us and help us more, the key is a totally different approach…

Now, this new approach doesn’t add more work to your already full plate. It actually reduces it significantly. 

You might be wondering what is this magic I speak of. 

What I’m suggesting is so simple, it’s almost ridiculous. But not to be dismissed because of its simplicity. At the end of the day, though it’s simple it might still be challenging. And this challenge will serve you infinitely more than going at things the usual way… 

I’m talking about Creating through Connected Collaboration™ Let me explain.

When we approach any interaction from a place of curiosity and openmindedness, with warmth, vulnerability, authenticity, and a willingness to share airtime, then we are able to join in a collaborative spirit… When we connect deeply and meaningfully, when we have shared values, vision, and goals, when we play with them from our heart, then we are able to create anything we desire. These things might be the challenge themselves, but so fulfilling to master. This is where our attention is needed most…

Embracing a softer approach to creation with connecting vs grinding is the shift that’s in order…

This allows for a smooth creation of the relationship and life we want. It allows us to collaborate, to cocreate with ease, to manifest with splendor. It allows for a grander experience… 

Shifting to this approach immediately allows for new beginnings and experiences. This is how everything gets done with ease- things fall off our to do, get streamlined, get more support and are just a joy to tackle. 

All the doing and grinding no longer give the results and satisfaction we seek. The outcomes and fulfillment, including the amazing experience along the way, get created through connection, that makes collaboration for manifestation a piece of cake. 

So, don’t let the seemingly crazy world out there get you- you don’t have to join in all the doing, grinding, and fighting. Elevate yourself and your approach and watch how seamlessly you create the relationship and life you love… 

 

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Wishing you all the joy, connection and love today and always…

With Much Love & Light!

 

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Focus on removing any toxicity from our interactions…

Focus on removing any toxicity from our interactions…

With Springtime we embrace the chance for rebirth and for new beginnings, a cleansing of what we don’t need, no longer serves us, and holds us back to create space for the new… How about doing more of that specifically in our relationship? How about putting focus on removing any toxicity from our interactions…

As we continue our personal development Journey, becoming more who we are every day, we encounter friction in our relationship that is meant for our growth at the end of the day… Our circumstances and our partner are a mere projection of what’s inside us… If there is something we do not like, it behooves us to investigate how that is about us, and for us…

Instead of reacting by pointing the finger and focusing on how our partner has fallen short of our expectations and desires, how about we take personal inventory instead…

It is toxic to react with our egoic patterns regardless of how our partner shows up… This might be a tough pill to swallow, but there is a reason why something triggers you and other things don’t, and why what triggers you might not trigger someone else… All of that is just for you… 

So how about keeping that knowledge handy to inform our awareness and perception, so we can more easily not react and be toxic in our relationship…

If we know what patterns we tend to create, what we want to change, and who we want to become, then let’s start by not showing up with more of the usual… Let’s be intentional about how we show up. 

That intentionality can start first thing in the morning, when you choose to:

~ Remember you are more than your memories, your identity, your egoic patterns, and your habits…

~ Align with your true self, not the story of you…

~ Show up this day with who you are becoming and what kind of partner you want to be…

You have a choice in all this. Yes, the habitual aspect makes it difficult to do something different but that’s where the power of intentionality comes in. Activate it first thing in the morning and reset it throughout the day when you find you have veered off course…

You have a choice on:

  1. How to take something your partner said, did or didn’t do
  2. How you’ll respond or address it
  3. What you’ll focus on
  4. What you show up with
  5. How you continue the interaction
  6. What you do after
  7. How you move on
  8. Where you go from there
  9. How you choose to show up the rest of the time
  10. How you show love… 

 

Let your intentions guide you and serve as your beacon of Light…

 

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APPLICATION: Acknowledge and embrace that your partner is a gift to your growth and evolution…

 ~ Identify where the most friction happens in your relationship and what info is there for your growth- the friction is not because your partner sucks!

~ Identify what kind of being you really are deep inside and how you need to be to Become more who you really are…

~ Identify what kind of responses, actions, and new habits and practices you’ll start to support your becoming and your radiant relationship… 

 

Cultivating your Best Self and bringing it to your interactions consistently is what the doctor ordered to manifest your radiant relationship, and meaningful life…

Wishing you all the joy, connection and love today and always…

With Much Love & Light!

 

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